Mother and Child

Alla-h (swt) mentions in Surat al-Baqarah, Verse 233: “Mothers shall suckle their children for two full years, - that for such as desire to complete the suckling.” And in Surat al-Ahqa-f, Verse 15, He states: “And his gestation and weaning take thirt...

Alla-h (swt) mentions in Surat al-Baqarah, Verse 2...

1. The mother should have taqwa (piety), and should be careful that the milk should not be contaminated due to lack of piety and virtue. Especially during the period of breastfeeding, one should stay away from all types of sin. Mustahab acts and clos...

1. The mother should have taqwa (piety), and shoul...

1. Breast milk contains all the necessary ingredients that the child needs in the first 4-6 months of life. 2. Breast milk contains the suitable proteins and fats to satisfy the natural needs of the child. 3. There are higher quantities of lactose in...

1. Breast milk contains all the necessary ingredie...

Alla-h (swt) has placed food and water for the child in the body of the mother, and has created an amazing system of feeding the newborn child in a manner which is perfect and most beneficial. It is narrated from Ima-m as-Sa-diq (as): “Oh Mother of I...

Alla-h (swt) has placed food and water for the chi...

There are many traditions narrating the rewards of breastfeeding, such as those narrated in the Importance of Motherhood section in Chapter 5, where the breastfeeding mother has been likened to one who fights for Alla-h (swt) , and if she dies during...

There are many traditions narrating the rewards of...

1. Acceptance of the child, whether boy or girl Unfortunately, even today, many still have the stereotype that girls are undesirable and treat sons and daughters differently. Whereas, it is clear in the Qur’an that the child is a creation of Alla-h (...

1. Acceptance of the child, whether boy or girl Un...

It is important to note that many of the acts mentioned in this section are similar to those outlined in the Sexual Etiquette section, with the addition of how it affects the conceived child. State of mind The state of mind and soul of the parents ha...

It is important to note that many of the acts ment...

1. Fresh dates 175 a. It is narrated that the Prophet (s) said: “The first thing a woman should eat after delivery should be ratb (a type of fresh date), as Alla-h (swt) told Hadrat Maryam after delivering Prophet (s) ‘Isa- to eat ratb. 176” When ask...

1. Fresh dates 175 a. It is narrated that the Prop...

Recommended Foods The food one eats not only has a great impact on the physical aspect of a person, but on the soul and psyche as well. Therefore, it is strongly recommended that parents-to-be stay away from forbidden food, and even those that food w...

Recommended Foods The food one eats not only has a...

1. Recite Surat al-Inshiqa-q after Sala-t in the 9th month. When labour pains start, recite this, and if it is not possible to recite it with your tongue, recite it in your head. 2. Drink saffron syrup during labour to ease the pain (not before as it...

1. Recite Surat al-Inshiqa-q after Sala-t in the 9...

It is important to note that many of the acts mentioned in this section are similar to those outlined in the Sexual Etiquette section, with the addition of how it affects the conceived child. Makru-h acts As some actions have a negative effect on the...

It is important to note that many of the acts ment...

Like the conception period, and even more so, the thoughts and actions of the mother have an impact on the Akhla-q, actions and faith of the unborn child, as the child is like an organ of the mother and obtains all the necessary factors of developmen...

Like the conception period, and even more so, the ...

The Prophet Muhammad (s) has said that: “Paradise is under the feet of the mother.” 154 Alla-h (swt) states in the Noble Qur’an, in Surat al-Fa-tir, Verse 11: “And no female conceives or delivers except with His knowledge.” It is also narrated from t...

The Prophet Muhammad (s) has said that: “Paradise ...

We can conclude from all of the above that the aim of sexual relations is two-fold: satisfying one’s natural desires and procreation. Guidelines from the Prophet (s) and his Ahlul Bayt (as) clearly indicate the lengths one has to go to to have desira...

We can conclude from all of the above that the aim...

It is important to note that many of the times mentioned in this section are similar to those outlined in the Sexual Etiquette section, with the addition of how it affects the conceived child. Haram times 1. During the woman’s menstruation, even on t...

It is important to note that many of the times men...

It is important to note that many of the times mentioned in this section are similar to those outlined in the Sexual Etiquette section, with the addition of how it affects the conceived child. Mustahab times 1. Sunday night (next day Monday). A child...

It is important to note that many of the times men...

Islam’s approach to the issue of birth control and abortion is very balanced. It allows women to prevent pregnancy but forbids them to terminate it. Abortion after the implantation of the fertilized ovum in the womb is absolutely forbidden and is con...

Islam’s approach to the issue of birth control and...

Dinner and Nighttime Snacks That Can Cause Wet Nights If you have a child who wets the bed, you’ve probably heard lots of rumors about nutritional bedwetting solutions. Limit liquids after 6 p.m. Avoid orange juice. Steer clear of spicy food. In an ...

Dinner and Nighttime Snacks That Can Cause Wet Nig...

WASHINGTON (AP) — Pediatricians are supposed to track if youngsters are putting on too many pounds — but a new study found less than a quarter of parents of overweight children recall the doctor ever saying there was a problem. Does that mean doctors...

WASHINGTON (AP) — Pediatricians are supposed to tr...

Most children's cereals do not meet proposed federal guidelines for food marketed to kids, according to a report from Environmental Working Group (EWG), a nonprofit research and advocacy organization. Of 84 popular cereals, only 20 met all criteria f...

Most children's cereals do not meet proposed feder...

Toys are a major part of children's fun and excitement during the holiday season, so parents and others need to make sure the toys are safe, experts say. Read all warning labels carefully before buying a toy and consider the child's age, interests an...

Toys are a major part of children's fun and excite...