Family

It was mentioned in Part Two that the parents are the metaphorical Lords children. There is no exception to this rule, so far as boys are concerned. But as for girls, after marriage the parents' Lordship comes to an end and they come under the domain...

It was mentioned in Part Two that the parents are ...

The above discussion brings us to the benefits of marriage and the philosophy of the matrimonial bond. Marriage is one of the fundamental sociological institutions. Mankind, since its very beginning, has kept to it without any disruption. Even the so...

The above discussion brings us to the benefits of ...

Uptil now we have been looking at the natural boundary line between the responsibilities of man and woman. Now, let us see how Islam - the Natural Religion - has safe-guarded that boundary. It was mentioned earlier that Islam wants to educate boys in...

Uptil now we have been looking at the natural boun...

However, man has been made guardian of woman, because of his strong physical and intellectual powers and because he is responsible for maintaining her. It is for this reason that the wife is obliged to obey her husband. The Holy Prophet has said The ...

However, man has been made guardian of woman, beca...

The Holy Prophet said to `Ali (a.s.) O' `Ali, there are as many rights of children incumbent upon parents as there are rights of parents incumbent upon children. Rights and duties are inter-related. The right of `A' is the duty of `B'. Although, as m...

The Holy Prophet said to `Ali (a.s.) O' `Ali, ther...

... They ( wives) are your garment and you are their garment ... (Qur'an, 2:187) While the "family" is the foundation of civilization and society, the relationship of husband and wife and defining their mutual rights and duties is the foundation of f...

... They ( wives) are your garment and you are the...

In principle, the dependants (whose responsibility MUST be borne in any case) was limited: al-Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq (a.s.)* said: The ways to spend (one's) wealth are twentyfour in all ... Thus, the five ways in which spending money is obligatory (waj...

In principle, the dependants (whose responsibility...

Islamic civilization, which is based upon the principle that women should not mingle with men, emphasizes separate domestic arrangements. With the influence of Hindu culture, Indian Muslims gradually adopted the Joint Family System. As a result, that...

Islamic civilization, which is based upon the prin...

Here is a point to ponder over: We do not find in the Qur'an and hadith so much emphasis on looking after the children as is the case with the rights of the parents. Why? The shari `ah has put a new challenge to those who think. Find out how logical ...

Here is a point to ponder over: We do not find in ...

From infancy upto the age of 21-22 years, one's life may be divided into three stages: The First Stage is upto the age of 7. Ancient philosophers were of the opinion that the human mind in the very beginning is completely blank, and it is only gradua...

From infancy upto the age of 21-22 years, one's li...

Now, let us look at the wise system of Islam. Here we find that Islam has laid down a straightforward highway with such skill that a man walk ing on it may enjoy the sweet smell of both these systems, and still not be beset by the thorny problems of ...

Now, let us look at the wise system of Islam. Here...

Your parents and your children, ye know not which of them are nearest to you in benefit. . (Qur'an, 4:11) This ayah shows the Islamic attitude towards the relationship between parents and children. From infancy to adulthood, it is unparalleled ten de...

Your parents and your children, ye know not which ...

The Separate Family System does not suffer from the disadvantages mentioned above of Joint Family System, nor does it have its advantages. To remain aloof from one's own relatives is likely to kill the finest of human instincts. This system may breed...

The Separate Family System does not suffer from th...

A sensible and well-balanced family system is the very foundation of a happy life. Ineed, it is the root of an advancing civilization. Religion comes to take human beings nearer to Allah. Therefore, it must create an atmosphere conducive to that idea...

A sensible and well-balanced family system is the ...

According to sociologists, there are two types of family systems in the world: "The Joint Family System" and "The Separate Family System". that all members of a clan:- father, son, brother, sister, uncle, nephew etc., live together. The in come of th...

According to sociologists, there are two types of ...

Islam is the Final religion and has the most ideal shari `ah (revealed law). An unbiased observer cannot help admiring the equilibrium which it has achieved balancing the demands of body and spirit, providing guidance concerning life in this world as...

Islam is the Final religion and has the most ideal...

Many parents have frustrated and angry relationships with their children. Even very young children sometimes become a source of annoyance with their constant demands, whining, and disobedience. Family life is supposed to be joyous and fulfilling but ...

Many parents have frustrated and angry relationshi...

Parents who often put down and scold one child in front of another, are increasing sibling rivalry. No child likes to feel humiliated in front of his siblings. The harsh words spoken by the parent, even if deserved, could be used by siblings to tease...

Parents who often put down and scold one child in ...

All human beings (and children) have different abilities and personalities. A variety of characters and traits in a family make the home a lively and interesting place. Many parents, however, make the mistake of constantly comparing children with one...

All human beings (and children) have different abi...

Some parents prefer their sons over their daughters. This is a totally unfounded and un-Islamic bias. To favor boys and give them special treatment is unfair. It builds great resentment among siblings. Some parents give a lot of freedom to their boys...

Some parents prefer their sons over their daughter...

Sometimes a child needs more attention than others. This could be true of small babies, or if a child is sick and/or has a particular problem. When a parent gives continuous attention to one child, it is natural that the others feel resentful and jea...

Sometimes a child needs more attention than others...